“Does it irk you when you have somewhere to be and the person in the vehicle ahead of you is driving super slow?
(laughs).
If not, then I commend you.
We pass them up, shake our head and keep driving to our destination. While the person in the other vehicle keeps taking their time and driving to their destination.
The reason why the person in the other vehicle is never bothered by how slow they are driving is because they have one goal in mind.
And no, it was never about slowing you down. (joking)
Their main focus is to reach their destination at their pace.
Throughout life why do we choose to measure the time it takes someone to reach their success to the time it takes us to reach ours?
Everyone has their own pace, their own path and not to mention their own bumps in the road.
And truth be told, some of those paths and bumps would have forced a lot of us to turn around on our journey.
So let’s stop comparing the time it takes to reach the destination and start encouraging each other to stay on pace and keep going.
Be patient, the goal is not how quickly you reach your destination.
“Life is a journey that is traveled and filled with high and low experiences.
The key to handling and managing the ride is to keep your vehicle maintained and make sure all the parts in your vehicle are performing to their operating standards.
In other words you want to make sure you build a sound foundation that you can lean on in order to withstand anything that comes your way.
One of the main parts of the vehicle that needs to be in working condition is your windshield wipers.
This is equivalent to keeping a sound mind that reminds you of your purpose and your power so that your vision is clear and you will always stay focused on the goal and task at hand.
Keep a sound mind, always make sure your windshield wipers are in working condition so when those negative experiences try to pour down on you and obstruct your vision…..You can always wipe them away and see clear again.”
Do you ever find yourself spending too much time soaking in your problems?
If you answered “yes”, then this post is for you.
If you answered “no”, then this post is also for you. (As a reminder)
“It is human nature to find ourselves spending too much energy worrying about our problems. Quite frankly, I could make a case that there is nothing wrong with taking the time to deal with the emotions in our daily situations and analyzing our problems.
However, the problem arises when we don’t spend the same amount of energy seeking solutions.
There is an attribute in sales that they use called “results driven” when seeking the perfect candidate. The candidate they are seeking possesses a keen ability to not only deal with problems, but also keep their sight on delivering results.
They are aware of all the problems that they may face, but they understand they can’t afford to lose their focus. They been assigned the task of delivering results.
So what do they do?
They use it to their advantage.
How?
The problem is not what is driving them. It is their drive to bring in results that pushes them forward. Once they are able to identify the problem, then they immediately turn their focus to finding a solution that can deliver results.
The same concept can be used throughout life. It does you zero good by spending more time worrying or complaining about a problem. The benefits come to those that spend more time trying to discover a solution.
Everything that you aspire in life is waiting on you. It just might be gift wrapped in a miniature problem awaiting your solution so that you can reap the reward.”
What is there to gain when you accept that yesterday, today and even tomorrow might not go the way you planned?
Let me tell you what you will gain.
1. A sense of peace
2. Understanding
“You gain a sense of peace because you learn to accept that every single day will never go the way you plan. You can only control what you can control. You have to just do your part and allow the rest to work itself out in its own timing.
You have to be able to find your peace in accepting that this is the way life is designed. It’s as simple as that.
You gain understanding by learning to take the good with the “not so good”. You must learn and discover the blessing in the two. Just because yesterday, today, or tomorrow do not go the way you plan or planned, it does not mean that things are not working in your favor. There is a blessing in every single day because each day that comes and goes…..
is one more day that we are closer to our divine purpose.
When you write down a dream, you are bringing it from the original dream state into existence. You allow reality and the idea to connect.
Whenever we begin to see what was once a dream show up in front of us, written out into existence, then that single act brings a powerful influence to its inception.
The connection forms a wave of confidence and momentum for the dream to grow from a vision into a reality.
Write out your dreams and don’t allow the vision to fade.
Our dreams are meant to flourish. Hold onto your dreams and bring them into existence.“
“Do you ever wonder how he/she seems so gifted or so great at whatever they do?
I am going to let you in on a secret. (Shh..)
They are just being who they have been called to be.
The only difference is that you are spending more time watching them do the things that make them great than you are working on the things that make you great.
We are all unique and special. Each of us holding onto our own gift.
I encourage you to start spending less time watching others show us what they are great at and spend more time showing us what makes “YOU” great.”
“Why are we not courageous enough to take a risk on certain things that we desire in life?
The answer is simple. It is because we face a challenge.
The only challenge that faces us and dictates how much courage we have to pursue the things we want in life is fear.
The fear of taking a risk.
We fear taking risks because in our mind it involves a probability that might equate to failure.
It is a mind game. A mind game that we must conquer.
Once we make our mind up that we can achieve anything we set our mind to, then the probability of a reward on the other side of the equation becomes greater.
Whatever you want out of life set your mind to it, be courageous, stay focused, give it 100 percent and you will reap the reward.”
“You made it through 2020, which tells me that you can surpass most of your expectations.”
After 2020, there is one thing that you should be most proud of. It is that you have set a new bar and a new standard for how you should be living. You have proven to yourself that you can survive.
The new standard : 100% bare minimum.
To 2021 and beyond…Let’s find out how far we can take it”
“2020. Embrace? Never place those two words in the same sentence! Are you crazy?”
My response:
I know 2020 was a tough year to even consider to embrace. However, 2020 was a year that taught us a few things that we can take with us moving forward. Such as, don’t take things for granted, be grateful for what you have, and always remember that there is strength inside of us that we can lean on during difficult times.
As ugly as it may sound, 2020 is a relevant part of the story in the chapter about our growth.
My ability to dream brings out my greatest creations. I have all the power to create everything I ever imagined. I am able to produce and turn all of my ideas into reality.
The power of my imagination, that’s something NOBODY can take away”